The Wedding
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Carneros Resort and Spa
Napa, California
The attire for our wedding is formal.
We kindly request floor-length gowns and tuxedos or suits.
Please see our FAQ page for more information.
The Prelude
Arrive at Carneros by 4:30 PM
for the ceremony prelude, hosted at the Arbor.
The Ceremony
Please join us beneath the Arbor
for the much-anticipated ceremony.
Seating will promptly conclude by 5 PM.
The Cocktail Reception
To follow the ceremony at 5:30 PM,
please enjoy appetizers and cocktails
on the Vineyard Lawn.
The Dinner
Enjoy a farm-to-table full course meal
with a view in the Hilltop Courtyard
starting at 6:30 PM
The Party
Enjoy music and drinks and
party with us all night long
at the Hilltop & Hilltop Dining Room,
beginning around 8 PM and ending by 2 AM
Countdown
Weekend Celebrations
We’re so excited to spend this special weekend with you!
The following gatherings are completely optional.
Please feel free to join us for as many or as few as you’d like.
For additional wine country favorites, local eats, and things to do,
we invite you to explore the To Eat + To Do page on our website.
Wine Country Welcome
Thursday, August 7th | 2:00 – 4:00 PM
The Pavilion, Napa Yard
585 1st St, Napa, CA
Join us at the Napa Yard in downtown Napa for light bites
and refreshing drinks as we welcome you to wine country.
We can’t wait to kick off the celebration with you!
Attire: garden party casual —
sundresses, linen sets, or light summer wear
and comfortable shoes encouraged.
The Sacrament of Matrimony
Saturday, August 9th | 1:00 PM
Saints Peter & Paul Church, San Francisco
Please join us for our Catholic wedding ceremony
in this beautiful historic cathedral.
Attire: wedding formal or church-appropriate —
suits or dressy attire
with modest silhouettes suggested for the ceremony.
Complimentary parking is available in the church lot.
Evening under the Vines
Saturday, August 9th | 5:00 PM
The Gathering Tables, Carneros Resort
A relaxed evening celebration with live music,
lawn games, fire pits, bocce ball, and light bites
as we savor our final night together in wine country.
Attire: wine country casual —
think flowy dresses, breathable fabrics,
button-downs, or polos with nice pants.
Goodbye Brunch
Sunday, August 10th | 11:00 AM
The Carneros Courtyard, Carneros Resort
Before we part ways, stop by
for a cozy morning of light breakfast, pastries, coffee,
and heartfelt goodbyes.
Attire: casual and comfy —
relaxed summer wear
or travel-day ready outfits welcome.
Frequently Asked Questions
Where is the wedding?
The wedding is taking place at the lovely Carneros Resort and Spa, located at 4048 Sonoma Hwy in Napa, California.
Once arrived, please head towards the front lobby to be escorted to the ceremony by the resort staff. There will be golf cart rides available.
What is the dress code?
The attire for our wedding is formal. We kindly request floor-length gowns, with tuxedos optional. A well-tailored suit is also perfectly appropriate for a polished and sophisticated look.
Are children welcome?
While we love your little ones, this will be an adults-only celebration. We hope you enjoy a fun evening out with us! Please let us know if you would like help with accommodations.
What time should I arrive for the ceremony?
The ceremony will begin promptly at 5 PM. We recommend arriving at least 30 minutes early to ensure you’re comfortably seated and ready for the special moment.
What’s the best way to get to the venue?
The venue is the Carneros Resort and Spa in the Napa Valley. We recommend renting a car, using a rideshare service (Uber or Lyft), or considering public transportation options like the Marin Airporter (from SFO Airport to Novato) or Groome Transportation (from SFO Airport to Petaluma).
Is there parking available at the venues?
Yes, there will be free parking available on-site at all venues, including the Carneros Resort and Spa.
Can I take photos during the ceremony?
We kindly request an unplugged ceremony. Please turn off your phones and cameras so everyone can be fully present for this special moment.
What should I do if I have dietary restrictions?
Please let us know about any dietary needs or allergies when you RSVP, and we’ll ensure your meal is perfect for you.
What is the weather like?
In August, Napa enjoys warm, sunny days with an average high of 81°F and cooler evenings with lows around 55°F. It’s perfect weather for outdoor activities during the day and a light jacket or shawl in the evenings. With minimal chance of rain, you can expect clear skies and classic California summer vibes.
What is there to do in Napa while we’re visiting?
Napa Valley offers a variety of activities, from wine tasting and fine dining to exploring picturesque hiking trails and charming towns. Check out our "To Eat & To Do" section for recommendations.
What airports should I fly into?
The most convenient airports for Napa Valley are:
San Francisco International Airport (SFO): Located about 1–2 hours from Napa, SFO offers a wide range of domestic and international flights.
Oakland International Airport (OAK): About 1–2 hours from Napa, OAK is a smaller airport with many affordable domestic flight options.
Sacramento International Airport (SMF): A quiet, easy-to-navigate airport about 1.5 hours from Napa, often with less traffic than other Bay Area options.
Sonoma County Airport (STS): Located just 45 minutes from Napa, STS is the closest option, though flights are limited to select cities.
We recommend renting a car for flexibility in exploring the region, as public transportation options in Napa are limited.
Our Wedding Registry
Your presence at our wedding is present enough! However, if you'd like to honor us with a gift, we would greatly appreciate a contribution to our honeymoon fund. Thank you for your kindness and love!
How we met
It all began on a warm August morning, the first day of high school orientation at Marin Catholic. Amid the swirl of new faces and introductions, Cristy and Andrew met—just two teenagers with no idea how intertwined their lives would become. Over the months, band class became their favorite part of the day. Between shared laughs and whispered jokes over sheet music, a connection blossomed.
Spring brought turnabout season, a tradition where the girls invite the boys to the dance. Cristy took a leap of courage and asked Andrew to be her date. That night, as they slow danced under the dim glow of the cafeteria lights and Bruno Mars' It Will Rain, holding each other close for the first time, something unspoken passed between them.
By the following fall, Cristy had joined the tennis team, a sport Andrew had loved and played his whole life, and soon they found themselves spending weekends on the court until one day, Andrew worked up the nerve to suggest a date—dinner and a movie. On their third date, heart pounding, he asked her to be his girlfriend. Nervously leaning in for a kiss on the cheek, he was caught completely off-guard when she turned her head, stealing their first kiss.
The Proposal
Fast forward a decade. After years of love, laughter, and growing together, Cristy and Andrew had moved to New York City to pursue their dream careers—Cristy embarking on her journey to earn her MD and PhD in medical school, and Andrew leveling up his career in finance. They had just moved into their first apartment together and were celebrating their 10th anniversary with a candlelit dinner at a ritzy restaurant sixty stories in the air. Throughout their dinner over looking the Manhattan skyline, they reminisced on the amazing 10 years of love they had shared together. Over dessert, Andrew pulled out the ring he had been keeping in his pocket for the better part of a year and asked Cristy to spend forever with him. Her heartfelt "yes" echoed with love.
After saying yes, they spent the night walking hand in hand across the Brooklyn Bridge, taking in the grandness of the city they now called home. Under the twinkling lights of the skyline, they shared the news with their loved ones, their hearts full of excitement and joy.
Now, as Cristy and Andrew prepare to say “I do,” they’re returning to where it all began. Their wedding in Napa brings them back to the Bay Area, the place where two high-school sweethearts met, fell in love, and started this incredible journey together.
Est. 2013
Accommodations
Upscale
Carneros Resort and Spa
Located right at the heart of it all, Carneros Resort offers an exclusive, immersive experience with private cottages, fine dining, and panoramic vineyard views. Perfect for those seeking charming luxury and convenience.
You can receive a 5% discount if you call the Carneros and let them know you will be attending the Bañuelos Narcomey wedding.
